Carnegie Mellon University Event
I want to thank Rebecca Florey from Carnegie Mellon’s Career Center for setting up a great event the other night at her school. I spoke to about 30 students on my new book The 7 Things I Wish I Knew Before I Graduated. The students were extremely engaged in the session and gave me a number of things to ponder as I try to help college students with their careers.
What can you do if you know what your career passion is but are not in a position to act on it?
My answer was, if you know what you want to do but cannot get out of where you are then I would suggest waiting until the timing is right. How many small business owners wanted to start their company years before they actually could because they had to wait for capital? Or how many actors knew they wanted to be actors but had to waiter for years until they found their big break? I don’t believe in coincidences in life. If you know what you are called to do then if you are indeed called your passion will come to fruition in due time. Patience truly is a virtue.
College graduates are kind of expected to “have their act together” when they graduate. What should we do if we don’t have a clue what to do with our life after college?
Isn’t that the question of the ages for all college grads? I can think of three people I graduated with who were scared to death to graduate. They didn’t want to face to realities of growing up. They were quite comfortable with living the college life. For many students graduation brings more grief than it does jubilation.
If you are in the position of fear rather than excitement after graduation I would suggest taking it slow. Don’t jump into the first job that comes your way. Explore your options, determine what you like to do and do it. Don’t just take a job because you will need to start making student loan payments six months after graduation. If you can move back into your parent’s house for a time, do it. Save your money. Or if the thought of moving home causes stomach pains you might be able to find a cheap apartment with a friend but please don’t look for rooms at Trump Tower. Stay conservative until you determine what you are suppose to be doing with your life.
I think the biggest thing to remember is that you don’t need to know everything about life after graduation. Face it, you are still young, and relatively ignorant of how life works. Find an experienced successful person that you trust and get some good advice from them about life. Don’t try and do things as a lone ranger. Get good advice from someone who “has been there and done that.”
Thanks again CMU for bringing me in to speak. I look forward to seeing you again!
Justin










